Monday, June 28, 2010

When Am I Going to Be a Lion?

Tonight Alejandro asked me, "Mama, when am I gonna be the lion?", pointing to the top of the growth chart in his room.

"Oh baby," I said, "way too soon for Mama. Then I'll be really old."

"Aw man!," he says.

"Alejandro what is old?" I ask.

"I dunno," he says.

..."What is young?" I ask.

"FUN!" he exclaims.

Ain't that the truth I think to myself.

A Penny A Day

I had a birthday last week. It was a very rough week, but not because it was my birthday.

I am about to start all over again. I'm already exhausted and haven't even begun. I'm tired of starting over. This is my second round at this and I still haven't learned my lesson.

When I was a kid, I collected money. You could say I was a hoarder. Every nickel, dime and penny was coveted and saved for the future. I would stay at home rather than go to an event with the family if it meant saving my money. I would count my money every night. And then recount it and dream of my future.

Somewhere along the way I started giving my money to other people. It felt so good to help people and see the smiles on their faces. They needed it more than me or so it seemed. Sometimes I gave it away even when they didn't want it, like buying a friend lunch or sending money to a troubled relative.

Only now, I don't have any pennies.

Awhile back, my young son heard me talking about not have any pennies and needing to pay bills. He walked up to me, his tiny little fist holding a handful of pennies. "This is for you Mommy," he said, "I'll help you. This is yours."

Even though I'm starting over again, I covet other things now. The health of my family, the love of family and friends and my sweet, sweet boy.

And those pennies.

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

An Inspiring Thought

As long as you're above the ground you can make changes. - Dolly Kochheiser, 77 years old

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Under One Roof Again

I am reading the book, Under One Roof Again, by Susan Newman, PhD. I was interviewed for this book since my mother and I live together.

This book offers great insight for parent-child relationships. It is a great read for helping establish boundaries, realistic expectations, etc.

If you're interested in getting a copy the ISBN is 978-0-7627-5859-3.

Monday, June 7, 2010

Finally here

Well, I've landed. On another blog service, that is. I've been putting off making the move to a new service which basically means I haven't been writing at all. Which leads me back to the name of my blog, When Life Gets In My Way. I should probably rename it to When I Get In My Way.

But, here I am so no more putting things off. How do you get going?